Ten things for happy life

Published in Young Nation 10, September 2011
Ten things for happy life

Ten things for happy life

1) No one is incharge of your happiness except YOU so believe in yourself. Work hard to get good remarks and praise that will make YOU happy! Moreover, do some social work because it will gives you inner satisfaction and happiness.

2) What other people think of you is none of your business. Let the people say what they want to say, turn deaf ears to them. Jealousy and envy surrounds everybody but do listen to your parents and family members as they are your well-wishers.

3) No matter how good or bad situation is, it will change. Just keep this phrase in mind "the time will pass" , ye waqt guzer jaye ga. In happy and sad moments. Both are the part of our life but don't be remain sad in bad situations. If its bad today, tomorrow good news is coming towards YOU.

4) Your job won't take care of you when your are sick but your friends will so stay in touch with them as they are your real assets. Don't keep yourself busy and busy all the time. Yup no doubt work comes first but you are nothing without your friends and family. so stay in touch and give them time.

5) No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up. There are 50% people in the world who are happy on your failure. They celebrate your disasters. Don't give any chance of celebration to such people but speak out in front of your friends and well-wishers as they will cure all your disappoinments, failure and depression.

6) Life is to short to waste time in hating anyone. Don't hate others just kicked out the word HATE fron your dictionary. Dilute the feeling of hate by the flowers of patience and LOVE. Before hating someone just look at your self no one is Angel here!

7) Excessiveness of any thing is not good. For example, overeating will affect your stomach. Don't over do. Keep your limits. Limits are the border line. if you cross the limits then you are fully aware with the consequences. Try to set limits for everything and stop people at the borderline when they are about to cross the limits.

8) Every one is fully aware with the pros and cons of the task he is going to do, so do right things for the right results.

9) Life is a long journey and the best is yet to come.

10) Most important always thanks Allah Almighty.

Life is unpredictable

By Noor-ul-ain Hanif

Life is unpredictable,

Life is unreliable.

It hurts and gives us more pain,

When everything is moving plain.

Life is a bunch of roses,

But it’s not a bed of roses.

It is a long path of bitter thorns,

Those are waiting for us to move on.

It always smells sweet but

Nobody knows its true reality indeed.

We are bonded with friends and loved ones,

Life strikes on such connections.

It makes us sadder,

When we see our friends and loved ones in trouble.

And it really makes us helpless

When we see our parents upset!

Within My World: Dedicated to Nuru......

Within My World: Dedicated to Nuru......: "Happy Birthday my dearest and sweetest friend Nuru. Not a day goes by when I do not think of you and how empty my life would be if you were ..."

Thanks Kiru my dear friend :). Honestly, I am feeling like a celebrity.

Kiru you know why I am typing it with RED font because...because...I am writing it with the ink of my emotions that is off course red color. KIII... KII..KIIRAN :D . Well my emotions are coming from depth of my heart...oyee hoyee!! fom deep inside ;) :P:P. Please measure the intensity...I wana dedicate this song to you.

Don't take me negative. You are not Juhi and I am not SRk ;)

Friends, this is a sweet post written by my friend Kiran (Kiru). Apart from the earnings, this is the wonderful gift she gave me on my birthday :)

On my birthday...

Umer-e-rangene ko alvida kehte hain hum,

Es naaye umer ko khush amadeed kehte hain hum,

Nina tum kyun afsos kerte ho ess umer ke jane ka,

Yeh to ek uncaha dastoor hai zamane ka.

The feel of farewell

Taking photographs all the time, laughing on a stupid joke, calling each other with weird names, fighting on a t.v remote, signing D grade songs along, hugging each other with no reason at all. These sweet memories puts a smile on face. These were the moments that I spent with my best friend (cousin) "Aroug" but time fly away in a second.and finally the time comes to say bye, farewell, alvida, Allah Hafiz!

On your farewell my heart beats 
On every second my heart weeps,


The salty water tries to come out
But I don't allow them to fall down,


The weather is gloomy 
And I feeling very lonely,


The night is dark
And you are going far,


The time you arrive the time you depart
All the moments are stored in my heart


My wishes are with you, My prayers are with you
You are a kuchie koo, you are a kuchie koo


Love you,
Miss you!

Express yourself

Expressing your self is very important for every person. Don't keep your feelings inside share them with others in sad moments just try to burst into tears drop 1 or 2 tears and check your self you will feel light!

Vomit out bitter venom from your hearts. Don't keep harsh feelings for anyone just exceed them out of your hearts. According to a survey grudges and bitterness that we keep in our hearts for others is directly reflect on our face in the form of depression. Avoid bad intentions. Be faith full and keep good intentions from other. You'll definitely feel light and happy. Express yourself for the fulfillment of your rights, needs etc. In today's world if you'll not express yourself then you would gain nothing in life.

There are many ways of expressing. You can express your self in a  verbal and non verbal manner. By gestures, painting, songs etc. Writing and blogging is the easiest and common way to express. Explain your ideas, views to the world what to think, what's your opinion on any issue. Try to make your own opinions. Don't follow others. Yeah you should follow good traits of others but don't enforce them on your self. Be your self, don't suppress your feelings.

Best of Luck!

Juggling Shows of Pakistan

                 From last five years Morning Shows have made a revolution in Pakistani media. Every channel has its own morning show i.e. a news channel or a religious channel. Morning shows are providing an extra dose of entertainment to people from all walks of life. After sending children school and husbands office house wives turn on television and take an energetic and fresh start of the day by watching the beautiful ladies (hosts) of morning shows.

What a morning show comprised of? A talkative host entangled into branded clothes or a dummy displaying designer’s outfits. In fact most of the hosts have started selling the designer dresses that they wear in the show. If you want to buy that particular outfit just sms as much as you can. Besides host, the other eye-catching attraction of a morning show is its guest, new day new morning and a new guest, he or she can be from any field.  It depends on the show’s topic. No doubt morning shows has lessened the space between celebrities and audience. We can reach our favorite celebrities on a single phone call or by sms. But now every channel has its morning show and the guests are switching from one show to another. More over a morning show has number of interesting segments. Caption the image, birthday bumps, fitness, beauty these are some of the most famous segments that a morning show have. 

From last two years a new trend has hit the morning shows that are wedding seasons. I remember Shaista Wahidi’s morning show “Good Morning Pakistan” had introduced the first wedding season and after that all the morning shows copied it. “Wedding season celebrating in a morning show” it sounds abnormal.  Why a morning show is celebrating wedding season? A person turn on television in morning to get a fresh start but what he saw traditional ceremonies mayun, mehindi even baraat and valima,  all the people are singing shadi songs wearing heavy labled dresses and jewellerys . On the other hand these shadi shows were helpful for people who are getting married or are involved in marriage ceremonies, This is one side of the coin other side of the coin shows that these shows are developing inferiority complex inside poor audience. Every one watches morning shows from rich to poor but now a day’s morning shows are featuring shows for wealthy people only, wedding season is one of the obvious example. The heavy, expensive, branded clothes are not in every one’s reach and at the time of such economic crises these kinds of shows can only raise suicide rate in Pakistan.

Now a day’s switching of hosts is a hotly debated issue. I am talking about the recent shifting of Shaista Wahidi on Geo television in replacement of “Nadia Khan Show”  “Utho jago Pakistan” hit the television screens recently.  However Nadia Khan herself shifts from ARY to Geo television but no doubt Nadia khan is the trend setter. She has taught everyone how to host a morning show that is why many anchors copying her in every other show but she’s also a copy cat. Nadia had copied Shasta’s GNP segment of summer mela and Nadia Khan’s summer mela was again featuring the elite class of Pakistan.

Most of the morning shows started in past and ended in past. Like KIran and George a husband wife family morning shows.

All and all morning shows are can be call as backbone of Pakistani media and an extra dose of entertainment but this extra dose is now becoming an over dose for audience. Day start and ends on watching these shows. It seems that there is no more entertainment left. Same sequence, same segments, same shows that are call as morning shows!

The Friendship Song - "Friends are Quiet Angels"

Dedicated to all my friends, I don't wana lose you ppl  :') :'):'). You all are my Quite Angels!! :))

Love you all! Muahhh!! :))

Em back!!

Hey friends!

I am back from my Lahore, Islamabad, Murrue, Multan and Rahim yar khan's extremely chilled winter tour that was started from 25th December 2010 last year and ends yesterday  on 1 Jan 2011.

In other words, we started our journey in 2010 and end it in 2011. More over in 2010 we were in Punjab province and in 2011 we entered Sindh province. This is the first time, I celebrate my new year our of Karachi surprisingly in Rahim yar khan!!

A number of interesting stories are coming on our way just stay tuned to my blog!!

Our Locked Destinies

Don't you think every thing in this world is pre-planned? 

Yeah everything is planned by God

Our lives are connected with one an other. Its like a story, we meet someone his story connects with ours then the story moves forward. Some times we meet only one new person in a day some times a lot of new entries occur in our life. Many of them greet us , most of them shake hands and disappear but few of people left their foot prints on our hearts and become part of our sweet memories for the life time. These are the special people. Its only the charm of their attractive personalities that we get effected by them in a very short time period.

Being a Muslim we believe in concept of Taqdeer (destiny), Kismet (luck). Its part of our religion to have faith in it. Our destinies are pre-written by God but we can change them by our prayers. It happens many time, we continue asking something from God but He didn't fulfil our particular wish at that time. He reply our wish at right time and right place. Sometimes He answer our wishes in a single second and sometimes He takes days, weeks, months....to fulfil them and at the end of the day we realize and question our selves:

"What I was asking? that wasn't good for me... ohhh..I was out of my senses..."

and finally we say:

"God knows better and at last He has done everything in my favor"

As a young soul we keep wandering here and there in search of true love but a soul mate is pre-written by God.

"Marriages are made in heaven"

 "Suntey aye hain jurey bantey hain asmanoo mein..." (a line from Ahmed Jahanziab song)

God has made us in pairs and leave the task of searching them on us. I believe if someone is made for you (soul mate) then all stars, universe will arrange your meeting and one day that sweet encounter will take place and you will meet your soul mate but we usually get involved with other people in life and at the end of the day we end up with our soul mate only! So stop wandering here and there!...